To turn your back to someone who really want to be with you
To be pathetic to someone who you always want to sympathize with
To let someone feel that he is neglected when in fact he’s very important
To show someone that you don’t mind when in fact you care lot
To pretend not to know what he’s up to when in fact you know him a lot his details
To avoid someone when in fact you want to take a stolen glance
To find reasons for doing things you don’t usually do when you know he’s the only reason for doing so
To treat someone realize that his presence is naturally welcomed when in fact its creates an extraordinary excitement
To say things contrary to what you feel
To laugh a loud when in fact you really want to cry you heart out
To set someone free when you feel he’s all that you have and the one you love
To pretend you’re not hurt when he’s with someone else but you cry inside
To keep your feelings from someone when in fact you’re dying just to hear whisper
To run away when in fact you want to stay
To let you know that you’re that someone I’m talking about…
Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone she/he loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But, sometimes a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set yourself free. Let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still will not rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It’s never too late. Remember you may find love and lose it but “WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT”.
Remember you cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a relationship is out it in the test of fire. You cannot be a sooner of your mistake forever. Remember, we all fall and make wrong decisions but our blunders are meant not to be burying us deep in misery but to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process. With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We learn to share and reach out. We learn to be UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN. And when everything doesn’t end well, we learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt. But learning doesn’t have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on.
This is where we learn that “LIFE DOESN’T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN”.
THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It’s true, there is life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love if you leave the past behind and let your heart heal and give you the chance to find your self again.
The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that… “HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE”.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find our selves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is, when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
“YOU DON’T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOUR SELF. YOU WOULD BE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT THE DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING”
Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.
“IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED INLOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU.
And when it does, just pray that it is the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumble upon the right man when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes a promise in words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them. “ITS TRUE THAT LOVES CAN WAIT FOREVER. BUT IT IS CRAZY STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL. Love makes us see things through rose colored glasses. Most of the times we fail to recognize the danger sign that light up along our way. This feeling you have nurtured for so long isn’t healthy anymore. You must realize that you have to let go now before it consumes you and your sanity. There is always a time to thinks and stop. A time to be sensible and not allow our hearts rule over our head.
“YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY NOT IN THE ARMS OF A MAN WHO KEEPS YOU WAITING BUT IN THE ARMS OF SOMEONE WHO WILL TAKE YOU NOW AND LOVE YOU FOREVER”.
If loving a person who is attached to someone else is a crime, then maybe, many of us would have been jailed long before we realize what its consequences could have been.
Loving someone is never a sin. It is what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin, especially if we know that we are stepping and hurting other people and we are ruining other's lives.
“DON’T THINK ONLY FOR YOUR FEELINGS FOR REAL LOVE DOESN’T HAVE A PLACE FOR SELFISH PEOPLE”. When there is love, there is always sacrifice.
When we love someone, we never easily give up on that person. Even if we get hurt badly we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. We justify all the wrondoings. Loving too much doesn’t hurt. It is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance of the things we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered.
“DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOUR SELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE”
.Just like anything else, our love grows weak and dies if not taken cared of. It can keep up with pain only to a certain extend. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies.
“GOD WAKES US UP IN THE MIDST OF A STORM TO TEACH US A LESSON. HE TAKES AWAYS PEOPLE WE LOVE, SO WE CAN LEARN TO VALUE LOVE IT. HE MAKES US CRY SO HARD SO WE CAN SEE CLEARLY WHEN WE OPEN OUR EYES. HE MAKES US BITTER SO WE CAN REALIZE THAT THERE IS NO GENUINE HAPPINESS IF WE THINK ONLY OF OUR NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS.”
Relationship built on jealousy and selfishness is doomed from the very beginning. The hardest part of losing love is letting go and moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over thing that could have been but never will be.
“God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives and only if we put our trust in Him can we learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows.”In many failed relationships, separation comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to hold one is always beyond the control of circumstances. Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is a resolve we make ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadows, there will always be light after our darkness and loneliest moments.
There is always hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try.
“LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE SOMEONE EVEN MORE DESERVING IS YET TO COME”.
There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but “WE MUST ALWAYS BE SENSITIVE TO THE SIGNALS THAT TELL US WHEN TO RATIONALIZE AND BE SENSIBLE”.
There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn’t be as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else. There are many times when we love but don’t get loved in return.
“THERE IS TIME WHEN THE SIGN AHEAD SAYS STOP BUT WE STILL STUBBORNLY HEAD ON”.
We would say our love is unconditional. But if it really is, then we should never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about.“
BEING IN LOVE CAN BE THE MOST WONDERFUL THING WE COULD EXPERIENCE BUT IF THE FEELING BEGINS TO CONSUME OUR WHOLE BEINGS, THEN WE HAVE TO STOP AND LET OUR MINDS AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE OUR ACTIONS. ONLY WHEN WE LEARN TO ACCEPT OUR FATE AND UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF OUR FAILURES CAN WE TRULY GO ON WITH LIFE WITH OUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK AND CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT WILL NEVER BE……..