Thursday, January 11, 2007

LOVE is......

LOVE DEFINED

To love is like a piano. First, you must learn to play the rules, keys and notes. Then, you must forget the rules and play from your heart. When you love, you must not expect anything in return for if you do, you're not loving but investing. If you love, you must learn to accept pain or if happiness, you're not loving but using. Love can make you happy but oftentimes it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to which it's worth. Follow your heart. It might not always be right but despite the pain you will have memories that will make you smile even once and every rare while.

Sometimes, the love that we are looking for is just right in front of us-too close for the eyes to see, so close your eyes and let your heart see it for itself. Sometimes it's good to be "alone" but that doesn't make us lonely. It is not a matter of being present "with" someone; it's a matter of being "to" someone. Love has it's own time, seasons and own reasons! You can't ask it to stay, you can only embrace it as it comes and be glad that for a moment in your life, it was yours! Love no matter how hard you find it, you won't see it...but when you're about to give up, it comes.

Love is not looking at each other; it is looking at the same direction. Love is like a roller coaster: there are some downs, but when you get to the ups, when you feel that high, nothing can pull you down. All the down just disappear. A memory of true love is like a favorite song, no matter how many times it plays again, you'll never get tired of it. In loving someone, never regret what you do, but regret what you didn't do. Love is like a knife, it can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that will last a lifetime. It is not the amount of time we spend with our lovers that matters; it is how much we think about them that counts.

Love is not the matter of counting the years but making the years that counts. Love is like standing on wet cement that the longer you stay the harder it is to leave. But you can never go without leaving your shoes behind. Lust is when you love what you see. Love is when you lust for what's inside. You don't love someone worth dying for rather love someone worth living for. The test of true love doesn't come when you're together. It comes when you part ways and realize that in spite of breaking ups; the love is still there. To love someone is to know that you're gonna get hurt but still doing your best for your love to be noticed, even if you don't stand a chance in owning that person's heart. Gravity cannot be held responsible for people falling in love. When your love is true, sincere and real, what the lips hide the eyes reveal.

You may love someone for what he does, for what he is, or for what he can be. But if you love someone but can't explain why, then that's what we call true love. When you love, there's no such thing as loving a little, but loving all the way. It may not ask you to give up your life but will require lots of sacrifices. It's a lifetime venture in which we're always learning, discovering, and growing. Love weakens when there's more doubt but we learn to trust in spite of the doubts.

Lastly, love is not something we choose... it choose us. Love has it's own way of expressing itself it may not be obvious in our hearts but it never to fail to hit it's mark the HEART!

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